Counseling 448: Intervention and Advocacy with Children

Rosemary A. Thompson, Ed.D., LPC, NCC, NCSC

Old Dominion University, Norfolk, Virginia

Spring 2004

Friday, 4:15-7:00 p.m.

 

Course description (catalogue)

This course will provide an overview of how human services counselors assist children in a variety of settings.  Emphasis will be placed on advocacy, supportive work, and short-term crisis intervention.  The social, emotional, and cognitive needs of youth will also be addressed

 

Purpose

 

·        To review the normal developmental stages and developmental tasks of childhood.

 

·        To understand stressors, buffers, and the dynamics of resiliency in at-risk youth.

 

·        To delineate social, emotional, and cognitive deficits manifested in dysfunctional behavior. To develop an appreciation and deep respect for children and their families.

 

·        To develop attitudes and skills necessary for effective advocating for children.

 

·        To develop and design psychoeducational group interventions for children.

 

·        To understand how to implement basic therapeutic skills with children and their families.

 

·        To become comfortable working with children in a therapeutic relationship.

 

·        To understand the factors involving a therapeutic relationship and their applications in a variety of contexts - school, community, or agency.

 

·        To know and understand additional factors integral to the therapeutic relationship such as consultation with parents and teachers.

 

·        To be aware of the ethical and legal issues regarding children and the human services provider.

 

·        To develop one's own style of helping through introspective individual appraisal.

 

·        To develop skills at leading or facilitating various psychoeducational group activities.

 

 

Course competencies

 

·        State one's view of helping with regard to children.

 

·        Provide sources of personal gain to the helper from engaging in the helping process.

 

·        Describe the essential nature of helping in terms of need fulfillment and responsible independence.

 

·        Provide three dimensions of a helping process with children, i.e., to enhance their social, emotional, and cognitive skills.

 

·        Differentiate counseling intentions, interventions and therapeutic factors.

 

·        Develop a cognitive map of one's helping process when counseling children.

 

·        List ten principles for referral of helpers to other persons or agencies.

 

·        List steps for building or renewing a support system.

 

·        Describe one's own helping theory in relation to the needs of children.

 

·        Describe solution focused counseling.

 

·        Describe multimodal interventions with children. 

 

Required Textbooks:

 

Nurturing an Endangered Generation: Empowering Youth with Critical Social, Emotional, and Cognitive Skills

Author:  Rosemary A. Thompson

Taylor & Francis Publishers, 47 Runway Road,Levittown, PA 19057,Toll Free:1-800-821-8312;Fax:215-269-0363;

e-Mail: bkorders@taylorandfrancis.com

 

 Helping Youth Think Better, Feel Better, Relate Better:  A Skillbook to  Maximize Human Potential

Author: Rosemary A. Thompson

EduQuest Distributors, P.O. Box 56126, Va. Beach, Va. 23456

757-721-1117

 

 

Course requirements

 

Course Requirements and Student Responsibilities:  Assignments are as follows:

 

1.      PERSONAL PROFILE: Provide the following information:

                                   

                        (1)       Name and a picture of yourself (See me/See you)

                        (2)       Address

                        (3)       phone number

                        (4)       The last four digit of your SS#

                        (5)       Career aspirations

                        (6)       A recent accomplishment:

                        (7)       What are your three most important goals

                        (8)       Something that is unique about you

 

We will be using these on the air to create a distance learning community in our class.  As a helping professional we will be able to gain an understanding of your peers and share in some of your universal goals

 

2. READING.  Study the required textbook according to the schedule indicated in the weekly agenda.  It is also essential for you to come to class prepared so that you may participate actively and meaningfully in class discussion.  As a member of the class, you are responsible not only for your own learning, but also for helping your peers learn as well.

 

3. LEARNING COUNSELING AND INTERVENTION  SKILLS WITH  CHILDREN.  Learning to be an effective counselor with children involves much more than assimilating effective skills.  The primary objectives of this course are for you to develop these skills along with a cognitive understanding of the concepts and principles behind the skills.  Therefore, a major portion of the time spent in class will be devoted to demonstration, individual assessment and feedback of counseling and the helping process from the perspective of helping children.

 

4. CLASS DISCUSSION.  Opportunities for reactions and discussion of your independent readings will also be provided and included in class participation.  Focus topics also will provide opportunities for class discussion. I encourage didactic discussion between all of us.  When you respond or ask a question please state your name and your site.  You’ll find that sharing your perspective with others to be both a rewarding and enlightening experience.

 

      5. Attendance

100% attendance is expected.  Your presence and participation in each class session is vital for your learning. Class attendance and participation will be an important part of learning in this course. Students are expected to arrive on time, attend entire class meetings, and actively participate in discussions and demonstration activities.

 

A student who misses more than two classes and does not actively contribute cannot obtain a grade of “A.” A student who misses more than three classes, and does not actively contribute cannot obtain a grade of “B.” A student who misses more than three classes and does not actively contribute cannot obtain a grade of “C,” and a student who misses more than four classes and does not actively contribute cannot obtain a grade of “D.”  Exceptions will be made only with a doctor’s note.

 

 

6. Grading

The grade for this course will be determined by the following evaluation criteria:

 

(1)   Your performance on two tests (mid-term and final exam-40% each = 80% total);

           

(2)   Evaluation of your The Psychoeducational Life Skill Instructional Session Plan for Youth. The Psychoeducational Life Skills Session Plan = (20%).

 

A detailed example of this paper is provided at the end of this syllabus.  This is a practical paper (10 pages typed and doubled spaced) that focuses on teaching children and adolescents an important social, emotional, or cognitive such as anger management, conflict resolution, decision making, problem solving, or assertiveness to name a few. All of these skill using the text: Helping Youth Think Better, Feel Better, Relate Better:  A Skillbook to Maximize Human Potential. Please make a copy of your paper for yourself.   

 

Class meetings will include a combination of lecture, class discussion, play therapy demonstration, workshop exercises and psychoeducational activities.  Be prepared to participate and discuss experiential learning. Class notes will be available on my own website:  www.school-counselors.com. For the notes click on “counselors” and to review the power point presentations after class click on “hot topics.”

 

Accommodating students with special learning needs

 

“In accordance with university policy students with documented sensory and/or learning disabilities should inform the instructor so that their special needs may be accommodated.”

 

 

 Honors Pledge

 

Each student is expected to abide by the honor system of Old Dominion University.

 

“I pledge to support the honor system of Old Dominion University.  I will refrain from any form of academic dishonesty or deception, such as cheating or plagiarism.  I am aware that as a member of the academic community, it is my responsibility to turn in all suspected violators of the honor system.  I will report to Honor Council hearings if summoned.”

 

Instructor name, office location, contact information

 

Rosemary A. Thompson, Ed.D., NCC, LPC

Supervisor of Guidance and Counseling Chesapeake Public Schools, 304 Cedar Road, Chesapeake, Virginia 23322;

Adjunct Professor Department of Educational Leadership and Counseling Education-on campus Saturday 4:00 p.m.- 7:30 p.m.  Also, available on-line anytime.

 

Office hours

On-line/Anytime at thompson @pinn.net  Please do not hesitate to contact me if you have any concerns or questions.  I check my e-mail everyday.  I will also be available anytime by cellular phone 757- 619- 2984 at anytime.

 

Cell:                      (757) 619-2984

Fax:                      (757) 547-1346

e-mail:                  rtompso@odu.edu

thompson@pinn.net  (on-line anytime)

website:               www.school-counselors.com

 

Course sequencing and pre-requisites

COUN 341: Introduction to Human Services Counseling; COUN 343:Human Services Counseling Methods

 

1.       Topical outline and Reading Requirements

Presentation Notes (Note: Subject to change by the professor)

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Example of a Psychoeducational Life Skill Paper

 

Text Box: Rationale: Psychoeductional Life Skill Remediation Model. Youth and adults across the nation are increasingly manifesting serious social, emotional and cognitive deficits.  The indicators of emotional deficits manifest themselves in increased incidents of violence, suicide, and homicides. Social deficits manifest themselves with poor peer relations, an inability to resolve conflicts, and to manage anger.  Cognitive deficits place youth and adults at a disadvantage academically and reduce their career options making more vulnerable to criminal influences because they do not have the marketable skills to compete in a global economy. 

The Requirements for the Paper involves two components:

 

(1)   Identify a population that you want to work with from your textbook (e.g., Underachieving children, depressed children, substance abusing children, children who have unintended pregnancies, children who are violent or need conflict resolution skills, abused children, or a population of your own choosing).

 

Do some research on the latest statistics on this population and identify the skills that they need.

 

(2)   Then follow the Life Skill Remediation Model below and compile your simulation for your targeted population, i.e., what skill and follow the six steps listed below:

 

The skill repertoire of youth and adults can be enhanced using a Psychoeducational Life Skills Remediation Model.  Teaching a life skill group session follows a six-step learning model: (1) teach an overview of the skill; (2) model the skill for participants; (3) discuss the skill that was modeled and how it can be used in daily life;(4) practice the skill by role playing;(5) provide group feedback to participants to reinforce positive aspects of the role play; and (6) assign ownwork to practice applying the skill outside of the group. 

 

Modeling, feedback, role-playing, instruction, situation logs, and ownwork assignments are used to reinforce desired behavior.  The term "ownwork" is used rather than homework to reinforce one's own responsibility for changing behavior.  The term homework is often associated with isolated drudgery.  The Psychoeducational Life Skill Remediation Model is a more comprehensive and systematic approach to the remediation and enhancement of interpersonal and intrapersonal effectiveness. It is practiced in a group setting and involves a combination of cognitive and experiential components.

 

 This comprehensive skill delivery system emphasizes a psychoeducational life skill remediation model to is provided by a counselor where: (a) the client's difficulties are seen as gaps in knowledge or experiences rather than viewing maladaptive behavior through a deficit lens; and (b) the client is active in the design of his or her life skill development and management plan. An experiential group approach rather than a didactic one-on-one approach have continued to demonstrate to be the most successful way to diminish self-defeating behavior, particularly among youth. The instructional psychoeducational intervention techniques are derived from social learning theory.  Social skills are acquired primarily through learning (e.g., by observing, modeling, rehearsing, and providing feedback) and are maximized through social reinforcement (e.g., positive responses from one’s social environment).  Essentially, social, emotional, and cognitive skill deficits social can be remedied through direct instruction, and modeling. Behavioral rehearsal and coaching reinforce learning. Clients need these prerequisite skills to defeat dysfunctional behaviors and enhance their resiliency during stressful events.

 

 

The Psychoeducational Life Skill Intervention Process

 

The psychoeducational group leader assumes the role of director, teacher, model, evaluator, encourager, motivator, facilitator, and protector. Role playing within the Psychoeducational Life Skill Intervention Model provides opportunities: (1) to try out rehearse and practice new learning in a safe setting; (2) to discover how comfortable new behaviors can become; (3) to assess which alternative actions work best; and (4) to practice and repractice new learning by reality testing.  Essentially, intellectual insight alone is not sufficient to change self-defeating behavior, nor can an isolated didactic dialogue between client and therapist serve to integrate new social, emotional, or cognitive skills into the client's behavioral repertoire. Role-playing is a fundamental force of self-development and interpersonal learning.

 

A Demonstration of the Six Step Process to the Psychoeducational Life Skill Intervention Model

 

Steps are outlined according to what the group leader should say and do to help youth integrate social, emotional, and cognitive skills into his/her behavioral repertoire.  Training sessions are a series of action-reaction sequences in which effective skill behaviors are first rehearsed (role-play), and then critiqued (feedback).  Groups should be small (6-10) members; with gender and races mixed) and should cover one skill in one or two sessions.  Every member of the group role-plays the given skill correctly at least once.  Role-playing is intended to serve as behavioral rehearsal or practice for future use of the skill.   Further, a hypothetical future situation rather than a reenactment of the past event should be selected for role-playing. 

The Role of Group Leader as Director of the Psychoeducational Life Skill Process:

STEP 1: Present an overview of the social, emotional, or cognitive skill. This is considered the instructional portion of the process. An instructional vignette (5-10 minutes) is presented to teach the social, emotional or cognitive skill.  Introduction to the benefits of the skill in enhancing relationships, as well as, the pitfalls for not learning the skill is also presented.  The following are suggested instructional overviews for the social skill of assertiveness:  

 

Social Literacy Skill: “Understanding Your Assertive Rights”

 

We all have right:

 

·        To decide how to lead your life.

·        To express thoughts, actions, and feelings.

·        To have your own values, beliefs, opinions and emotions.

·        To tell others how you wish to be treated.

·        To say, I don't know, I don't understand.

·        To ask for information or help.

·        To have thoughts, feelings, and rights respected

·        To be listened, heard, and taken seriously

·        To ask for what is wanted

·        To make mistakes

·        To ask for more information

·        To say no without feeling guilty

·        To make a decision to or not to participate

·        To be assertive without regrets

 

Social Literacy Skill: Components of Assertiveness

 

Very often, people who are aggressive do not have within the interpersonal repertoire to express themselves assertively.  There are essentially six attributes that are specific to assertiveness:

·        Self-awareness: a developed knowledge of one’s goals, aspirations, interpersonal and intrapersonal behavior and the reasons for them. Realize where changes are needed and believe in your rights.

  

·        Self-acceptance: Self-awareness acknowledges one’s own particular strengths and weakness.

 

·        Honesty: Congruency between verbal and nonverbal thoughts, feelings, actions, and intentions.

 

·        Empathy: Sensitivity and acceptance of other’s feelings, behavior, and actions, i.e., to be able to walk in the other person’s shoes.

 

·        Responsibility: Assuming ownership for thoughts, feelings, actions, needs, goals, and expectations.

 

·        Equality: Accepting another person as equal with a willingness to negotiate with their needs, wants, or desires.

           Next, ask a question to help the members define the skill in their own.

Use language, such as:

 

 "Who can define assertiveness? What does being assertive mean to you?"

 

                          How is assertiveness different from aggressiveness?”

 

           Make a statement about what will follow the modeling of the skill.

 

"After we see the examples of the skill, we will talk about how you can use the skill."

 

           Distribute skill cards and asks a member to read the behavioral steps aloud

 

           Ask members to follow each step as the skill is modeled

 

STEP 2: Model the behavior following the steps listed on a flipchart or chalkboard.

 

Moving into the experiential component, the leader models for the group members what he or she considers to be appropriate mastery of the skill. This enables group members to visualize the process. The model can be live demonstration or simulation media presentation.  Identify and discuss the steps:

 

Social Literacy Skill: Assertiveness

 

Lack of assertiveness is one reason why conflicts occur in relationships.  To foster understanding and cooperation rather than resentment and resistance:

 

1.                  Be direct.  Deliver your message directly to the person with whom you are in conflict with (not to a second party, i.e., avoid the “he said”, “she said” trap).

 

2.                  Take ownership for your message.  Explain that your message comes from your point of view.  Use personalized “I statements” such as “I don’t agree with you” rather than “You’re wrong.”

 

3.                  State what you want, think, and feel as specifically as possible. Preface statements with:

“I have a need.”

“I want to…”

“Would you consider…?”

“I have a different opinion, I think that…”

“I don’t want you to…”

“I have mixed reactions for these reasons…”

 

First, concretely describe the other person's behavior.

 

Then, describe objectively how the other person's actions have affected you.

 

Next, accurately describe your feelings… “I feel…”

 

Finally,   Suggest what you would like to see happen…”I prefer this instead…”

 

Example:

Step 1:  When you are late picking me up for school in the morning;

 

Step 2:  I am always late for first bell and I always get detention.

 

Step 3:  I feel hurt and angry with you.

 

Step 4:  I am hoping that we could make plans so that I don’t have to be late anymore.

 

Ask for feedback to correct any misperceptions.  Encourage others to be clear, direct, and specific in their feedback to you: “Am I being clear?”  How do you perceive the situation?” “What do you want to do about this?”

 

STEP 3:  Invite discussion of the skill that is modeled

 

           "Did any of the situations you observed remind you of times that you had to use the skill?"

           

           Encourage a dialogue about skill usage and barriers to implementation among group members.

 

STEP 4:  Organize a role-play between two group members

 

                                   Designate one member as the behavior-rehearsing member, (i.e., the individual who will be working on integrating a specific social, emotional, or cognitive skill) Go over guidelines for role-playing.  Guidelines are as follows:

 

1.      Role-playing will give a perspective on your own behavior.

2.      It is a tool to bring a specific skill and its consequences into focus.

3.      By rehearsing a new skill you will be able to feel some of the same reactions that will be present when the behavior outside our group in a real setting.

4.      Role-playing is intended to give you experience in practicing skills and in discussing and identifying effective and ineffective behavior.

5.      Practice will enhance your confidence and you will be able to feel more comfortable in real life settings.

6.      The more real the role-playing leads to more emotional involvement that will increase what you will learn.

7.      Real life situations make it possible for you to try ways of handling situations without suffering any serious consequences if the methods fail.

 

1)     Ask the behavior-rehearsing member to choose a partner -- someone in the group that reminds him or her of the person with whom they would most likely use the skill. For example,

 

"Which member of the group reminds you of that person in some way?" or "Which member of the group would you feel most comfortable doing the role playing with?" 

 

“If no one is identified, ask someone to volunteer to rehearse the skill with the behavior rehearsing member.”

           

2)   Set the stage for the role-play including setting, props and furniture if necessary.

Ask questions such as, "Where will you be talking?"  "What  will be the time of  day?"  “What will you be doing?”

 

           Review with the behavior rehearsing member what should be said and done during the role play, such as

 

"What will be the first step of the skill?"  "What will you do if your partner does…?”                     

 

             3)        Provides final instructions to the behavior rehearsing member and the partner:

 

To the behavior-rehearsing member: “Try to follow the steps as best you can."

 

To the partner: "Try to play the part the best that you can by concentrating on what you think you would do when the practicing member follows the steps."

 

    4)     Direct the remaining members of the group to be observers of the process.  Their role is to provide feedback to the behavior-rehearsing member and the partner after the exercise.

 

The role-play begins. One group member can stand at chalkboard or flip chart to point out each step for the role playing team

 

           Coach and prompt role players when needed

 

STEP 5:  Elicit feedback from group members and processes after the exercise is completed.  Generous praise should be mixed with constructive suggestions.  Avoid blame and criticism. The focus should be on how to improve.  Suggestions should be achievable with practice. What follows is the social literacy skill of giving constructive feedback that is an integrated part of every Psychoeducational Life Skill Intervention Model.  The suggested dialogue for giving constructive feedback, another social literacy skill is as follows:

                                                                              

 

1.    Ask permission. Ask the person if he/she would like some feedback.  (If no, wait for a more appropriate time; if yes, proceed.)

 

2.    Say something positive to the person before you deliver the sensitive information.

 

3.    Describe the behavior.

 

4.    Focus on behavior the person can change, not on the person's personality.

 

5.    Be specific about the behavior and verifiable.  (Have other people complained?)

 

7.    Include some suggestion for improvement.

 

8.    Go slowly.  True behavior change occurs over time.

               For example:  "Jessica, I've notice something about your behavior at the student government meeting.  Would you like to hear it?  Well, at the last few meetings of the homecoming committee whenever Ryan suggested a theme, you interrupted him and changed the subject."

 

            Important Considerations for the Feedback Process:

 

           The behavior-rehearsing member is instructed to wait until everyone's comments have been heard.

 

           The partner processes his/her role, feelings, and reactions to the behavior rehearsing member. Observers are asked to report on how well the behavioral steps were followed; specific likes and dislikes; and the comments about the role of the behavior rehearsing member and the partner.

 

           Process group comments with the behavior-rehearsing member. The behavior-rehearsing member is asked to respond to how well he or she did in following the behavioral steps of the skill.  For example, "On a scale from 1 to 10 how satisfied were you about following the steps?"

 

STEP 6: Encourage follow through and transfer of learning to other social, emotional, or cognitive settings. This is a critical component.  Participants need to transfer newly developed life skills to personally relevant life situations. The behavior-rehearsing member is assigned “ownwork “to practice and apply the skill in real life (Ownwork is like homework which is a task that is assigned for the behavior rehearsing member to try out between sessions).  Group members are assigned to look for situations relevant to the skill they might role-play during the next group meeting.

 

           Ask the behavior-rehearsing member how, when, and with whom he or she might attempt the behavioral steps prior to the next group meeting.

 

           Assign the “Ownwork” Report to get a written commitment from the practicing member to try out the new skill and report back to the group the next group meeting. Discuss how and where the skill will be used.  Set specific goal to use the skill outside the group.

 

“Ownwork” is assigned to enhance the work of the session; and to keep the behavior-rehearsing member aware of the life skill they wish to enhance.  The ultimate goal is to practice new behaviors in a variety of natural settings.  Ownwork” puts the onus of responsibility for change on the behavior-rehearsing member, i.e., doing their ownwork to resolve the problem. The following examples are appropriate “ownwork” assignments:

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C                   Experiential/Behavioral Assignments: are assigning specific actions between session, e.g., a behavioral assignment for lack of assertiveness may be to instruct the behavior- rehearsing member to say "no" to unreasonable requests from others.

 

C                   Interpersonal Assignments: are assignments to enhance perceived communication difficulties by writing down unpleasant dialogues with others, which can be reviewed during the next session to show how someone inadvertently triggers rejection, criticism and hostilities in others.

 

C                   Thinking Assignments: are assignments such as making a list of things that are helpful to think about and to practice thinking these new thoughts throughout the day, (e.g., a person with low self-esteem can be instructed to spend time thinking about his or her proudest accomplishments).

 

C                   Writing Assignments: are assignments such as writing in a journal or diary can help participants develop an outlet for their feelings while away from the sessions, (e.g., keep a diary that lists for each day the frequency of new behaviors that are practiced).

 

C                   Solution-Focused Assignments: are assignments that actively seek solutions to problems identified in the sessions, (e.g., seeking a resolution to an interpersonal problem by negotiating or resolving a conflict with another person).

  

Life Skills Exercise Example for Social Literacy Skill:  Maintaining Impulse Control

 

(1) Instruction: Present an overview of the social, emotional or cognitive skill

 

Question: How would you define Impulse Control?

 

Impulse control is learning to stop and look at the consequences of your actions before you commit yourself to something.  It is the ability to stop and think whom else is going to be affected by your actions and what will the consequences be.  Is it worth it?

 

Simulation

 

Shelly is constantly over committing herself by being impulsive.  She has a problem saying no and working within the boundaries that are comfortable for her.  When she is asked to do something she will say yes even if she does not have the time or resources to complete the task.  Shelly was looking at the course schedule book for the fall and saw a class that looked interesting so she signed up for it.  She was already taking 15 graduate hours and working 20 hours per week.  She is feeling extremely stressed because of her overload of classes and is not she is not sure if she will get her assignments completed on time.  How can we help?

 

Signs of Loss of Control

 

            1.         Acting impulsively consumes lots of energy and resources. 

 

2.         You feel driven, impelled, and think of nothing else.

 

3.         You feel like the decision is the only possible answer and you let it take over all rational thinking.

 

Control Strategies

 

1.         Ask yourself who else is going to be affected by this behavior?

 

2.         How are they going to be affected by what I do?

 

3.         Delay the action. Give yourself some time to think through the decision so that you can see the consequences and alternatives.  Remember choice is important.

 

4.         Find a way to buy time, so you can think about your actions.

 

5.         Think back to the past and consider the situations you had to get yourself out of because of being too impulsive.      

 

(2) Modeling

 

Self Help Strategies

 

1.         Reward yourself each time you stop and think through a situation instead of acting impulsively.

 

2.         Keep a journal and record your feelings about decisions you make and if you de it impulsively.

 

3.         Write yourself a bill of rights and read it when you get ready to make decisions.

 

(3) Invite discussion of the skill that will be practiced

 

Reminders for Yourself

 

1.                  Having a choice is critical. It allows you freedom to act or not to act. It puts you in charge of yourself.

 

2.         If you always do what you’ve done. You will always get what you’ve       always got.

 

Consequences of Acting Impulsively

 

1.         The consequences of acting impulsively are: confusion, self-loathing,

            and feeling out of control.

 

2.         The results of acting impulsively are: you spend a tremendous amount of time trying to resolve conflicts, mend relationships, or balance time and money.

 

(4) Organize a Role Play Between Two Group Members

 

·        Shelly: Hey Beth, I just saw this great course in the spring all catalog. I think I will take it.

·        Beth: Shelly, how many hours of classes are you already taking?

·        Shelly: Fifteen, but this course sounds interesting and I really want to take it.

·        Beth: Shelly I realize you really want to take it and it sounds interesting, but is it something that you can handle right now with work and school?

·        Shelly: It will mean more homework and being up late at night, but I really think I can do it.

·        Beth: Shelly, remember last semester how stressed you were during finals.  Do you want that again?

·        Shelly: No, but Beth you don’t understand.  I really want to take this class.

·        Beth: Look at your “plus versus minus” ratio.  How is it going to benefit you and how is it going to impact your family?

·        Shelly: It’s going to help me with general knowledge but not toward my degree.  I hadn’t thought about my family.

·        Beth: Shelly do you think you could wait until tomorrow and make your decision, that way you could talk it over with Brian and the kids and think more about it.

 

·        Shelly: I guess I could, but what if it’s full by then?

·        Beth: Shelly, what if it is?  Will you still be able to graduate and could you take it later?

·        Shelly: You’ve got a point.  I’ll think about it and talk it over with Brian.

 

(5) Provide  Feedback to the Role Playing Pair

 

Elicit feedback from group members and outlined in the process above

 

(6) Give an "Ownwork" Assignment to Practice Outside of the Group

 

Assign Shelly to complete a Decision-Balance Matrix. Have Shelly look at the following aspects of her life and how her decision to take on more course work would affect her.

 

Figure 1

Decision Balance Matrix

Personal Time Commitment for Self and Others

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                                               Positive Consequences                Negative Consequences

                             (+)                                 (-)

                                                                                                                                                                                               

Social and Family Relationships

Academic Responsibilities

Job and Career Responsibilities

Leisure Time Pursuits

Church/Community Obligations

                                                                                                                       

                                                                                                                                           

            Assign Shelly to analyze time commitment for all course commitments, i.e., how much research for paper per class, readings per class, and special projects and merge those commitments with family and job responsibilities.  Bottom line: Are there enough hours in the week to do all she has obligated herself to do?  Ownwork assignments serve to strengthen behavior rehearsal of skills between sessions.

Figure 2

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“Ownwork” Assignment

 

q       Skill to be practiced: Learning to Say "No" and Establishing Healthy Boundaries

 

q       “ I will use this skill with…………………………………………………..”

 

q       “I will use it when………………………and where……………………..”

 

q       The steps are as follows:

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On a scale from 1-to-10 (1=lowest; 10=highest) rate yourself on how well


What was that paper assignment again?

 

Structure of Psychoeducational Life Skill Session

                                   

                                    Also in your paper, as an introduction, provide some characteristic of the population of youth you may serving from the Nurturing an Endangered Generation: Empowering Youth with Critical Social, Emotional, and Cognitive Skills

 

I.                     Introduce the Social, Emotional, or Cognitive Skill

II.                   Model the skill for group members

III.                  Discuss the skill that is modeled

IV.               Simulate a role play between members

V.                 Obtain Feedback from members

            VI.        Assign "ownwork"

 


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  Professional Information Background Statement

 

Instructor:  Rosemary A. Thompson, Ed.D., is Supervisor of Guidance and Counseling, Chesapeake Public Schools, Chesapeake, Virginia and Adjunct Professor, Educational Leadership and Counseling, Old Dominion University, Norfolk, Virginia. During her experience in the public school sector she has been a teacher, school counselor, high school guidance director, school administrator, supervisor of drug education, coordinator of gifted education and supervisor of guidance and counseling. Dr. Thompson has published widely in professional journals and is a national consultant on youth risk prevention and issues critical to counselors and educators. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) the Commonwealth of Virginia; National Certified Counselor (NCC), National Board of Certified Counselors; National Certified School Counselor (NCSC); Postgraduate Collegiate Professional Certificate Endorsements from the Commonwealth of Virginia: Psychology, School Counseling, Supervision, and Administration. Memberships/offices in professional organizations: Member, Task Force on Crisis Intervention/Crisis Management, Department of Education, Commonwealth of Virginia; Member, Suicide Task Force, American Association for Counseling and Development Member, Mayor’s Commission on Drug Education; Member, Advisory Board, Virginia Youth Alcohol Abuse Prevention Project, Virginia Department of Education; Chairman, Evaluation Committee Virginia Youth Alcohol Abuse Prevention Project. Recent publications include four books:  Crisis Intervention and Crisis Management in Schools and Communities: Strategies That Work (2004 ); School Counseling:  Best Practices for Working in the Schools (2002); Nurturing an Endangered Generation: Empowering Youth With Critical Social, Emotional, and Cognitive Skills (1998); Counseling Techniques: Improving Relationships With Others, Ourselves, Our families, and Our Environment (1996; 2nd edition 2003).  Research interests: Youth risk prevention and the promotional of resiliency in youth; social and emotional learning; crisis and critical incidents management, grief, loss and the effects of terrorism and trauma on children, and solution-focused approaches to therapy. Theoretical orientation is an eclectic blend of existential, humanistic and experiential, systemic and psychoeducational approaches.  Primary teaching techniques include experiential activities focusing on student’s self-awareness; personal reflection with student journals; lecture and readings; life skill approaches to the remediation of social, emotional and cognitive deficits of children and adolescents; and student delivered focused-topics pertaining to the course.